Comments on: Keeping Your Privates, Private http://dewde.com/2008/08/first-discipline-second-hug/ Becoming the man I should have been all along Wed, 03 Mar 2010 04:30:00 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9 hourly 1 By: dewde http://dewde.com/2008/08/first-discipline-second-hug/comment-page-1/#comment-14 dewde Tue, 19 Aug 2008 17:37:31 +0000 http://furled.com/blog/?p=11#comment-14 Jason: Thanks! Great insight. I'm going to go read those articles now. peace|dewde Jason:

Thanks! Great insight. I’m going to go read those articles now.

peace|dewde

]]> By: dewde http://dewde.com/2008/08/first-discipline-second-hug/comment-page-1/#comment-13 dewde Tue, 19 Aug 2008 17:36:59 +0000 http://furled.com/blog/?p=11#comment-13 Turff: Are you bothered because I mocked you or because it was warranted? :-) Turff:

Are you bothered because I mocked you or because it was warranted? :-)

]]> By: Turff http://dewde.com/2008/08/first-discipline-second-hug/comment-page-1/#comment-8 Turff Tue, 19 Aug 2008 14:45:39 +0000 http://furled.com/blog/?p=11#comment-8 Very well said. Having acknowledged that fact, let me say: "Thhhhppttttt". That's for mocking me on the blog of another. Very well said.

Having acknowledged that fact, let me say:

“Thhhhppttttt”.

That’s for mocking me on the blog of another.

]]> By: Jason Elkins http://dewde.com/2008/08/first-discipline-second-hug/comment-page-1/#comment-7 Jason Elkins Tue, 19 Aug 2008 13:17:00 +0000 http://furled.com/blog/?p=11#comment-7 Great job dad! Tough tough decisions are made every day when you have children. Mine are 8 and 10. We had an issue with a friend showing his privates, and my friends dad said to his son "Son, you don't have privates anymore, you have PUBLICS!" He's better now. :-) Your story was well written and I'm glad you have the courage to 'parent your children'. We have found with one of our children, the threat of removing privileges/toys is a great motivator. With our other child it's opposite. We need to use rewards as a motivator. "If your behavior is great this week, you can have a friend over this weekend". My wife and I can't believe that they came out of the same gene pool! Take a look at these two stories I wrote about my children if you get a moment. Thanks for sharing! Jason Elkins Transparent Christian Magazine http://www.transparentchristianmagazine.com/2008/06/17/old-shirts-and-new-cologne-jason-elkins/ http://www.transparentchristianmagazine.com/2008/01/22/because-i-asked-you-too-a-story-by-jason-elkins-transparent-christian-magazine/ Great job dad! Tough tough decisions are made every day when you have children. Mine are 8 and 10. We had an issue with a friend showing his privates, and my friends dad said to his son “Son, you don’t have privates anymore, you have PUBLICS!” He’s better now. :-)

Your story was well written and I’m glad you have the courage to ‘parent your children’. We have found with one of our children, the threat of removing privileges/toys is a great motivator. With our other child it’s opposite. We need to use rewards as a motivator. “If your behavior is great this week, you can have a friend over this weekend”.

My wife and I can’t believe that they came out of the same gene pool!

Take a look at these two stories I wrote about my children if you get a moment. Thanks for sharing!

Jason Elkins
Transparent Christian Magazine

http://www.transparentchristianmagazine.com/2008/06/17/old-shirts-and-new-cologne-jason-elkins/
http://www.transparentchristianmagazine.com/2008/01/22/because-i-asked-you-too-a-story-by-jason-elkins-transparent-christian-magazine/

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